I visited today the archive in Vechta and checked some church books.
The only one I could find is this:
Elisabeth Schillmöller, born 4.Dec.1817 in Steinfeld,
parents: Henrich Anton Schillmöller and Agnes Ollendiek, Heuerlinge in Steinfeld-Schemde
It is not exact your date of birth, but close to them. Could it be ? I some more records of this family.
Ochtrup is located in Steinfurt county, between Münster and the Netherland border.
There you can find 9 Duesmann addresses, look www.teleauskunft.de