Hello,
Dear Don,
I would try New Orleans first. After that perhaps Philidelphia or Baltimore. If not found at large port of New York.
Rena,
Regarding ship lists, here is a shiplist of several people by the name
of Flamme coming from Germany to the U.S, but the ship came from Liverpool &
Ireland:
http://www.immigrantships.net/v6/1800v6/nebraska18680320_02.html
Note the asterisk by the name Wilt--says it could be Wilh. There's a
Herman there, too.
Barbara